Prepare to Be PursuedMake Room for Boaz

The Elite Allure 9-Month Experience

You made room for
the life you built.
Now make room for
the love you desire.

Nine months of personalized strategy, coaching, community, retreats, and real-world social experiences—designed to help accomplished women become ready for the connection they desire.

Explore Your Allure

Private enrollment • Limited availability

Make Room for Boaz

If your professional life is full—but your romantic life keeps getting the leftovers—this is for you.

01The shift

This is not another dating strategy.

Love does not need to become another project. But it does deserve a place in your life.

You have learned to deliver, lead, recover, and keep going. Yet when it comes to love, you may still be navigating old disappointments, unclear patterns, surface-level connections, or a calendar with no real room for partnership.

Prepare to Be Pursued helps you bring the same intention to your relational life—without performing, chasing, shrinking, or pretending you have it all figured out.

Your private experience

From guarded and overextended to ready, discerning, and open.

01

Make room

Create emotional, practical, mental, and spiritual space for the relationship you say you desire.

02

Know yourself

Clarify your needs, standards, boundaries, patterns, and the kind of partnership that fits the life you are building.

03

Reconnect

Strengthen the curiosity, conversation, confidence, and social ease that turn introductions into meaningful possibilities.

04

Date differently

Discern compatibility without fear, fantasy, pressure, or repeating relationships that no longer serve you.

See the experience

What does nine months of becoming look like?

Elite Allure is a journey from reflection to strategy, from learning to practice, and from postponing your romantic life to intentionally making room for it. Watch how the experience unfolds.

The Elite Allure 9-Month Experience • 5 minute overview

The Elite Allure 9-Month Experience

Not a course to finish.
An ecosystem built around your transformation.

Every layer is designed to move you from insight to implementation: first understanding yourself and today's social landscape, then building and practicing a personal relationship strategy with sustained support around you.

FoundationFirst 8 weeks

Rediscover Your Allure

Understand who you are—and how you fit into the current social landscape.

  • Rediscover Your Allure Program, Part IGuided foundational curriculum for self-awareness, readiness, and renewed relational confidence.
  • Weekly Live Q&AOngoing clarity, coaching, and motivation alongside fellow Allure Ladies.
  • Virtual Weekend RetreatsRejuvenating experiences of connection, growth, honest conversation, and pure fun with women from around the country.
  • The Allure LoungeA private, client-only community for continued connection between live experiences.
  • The Allure ArchiveOn-demand access to replays from live events so the learning remains available when you need it.
The complete experience
Personalization + practice6-month immersion

Allure Academy

Your personal dating strategy—developed with surgical precision and the social skills to execute it with confidence.

Includes everything in the foundational experience, plus:

  • Allure Academy, Part IISix months of deeper strategy, social development, practice, and personalized implementation.
  • Monthly Private Coaching SessionsIndividual attention from certified P2BP coaches who are also program success stories, subject to availability.
  • Monthly Group Elite CoachingHigh-level coaching, perspective, and accountability inside a focused cohort experience.
  • Virtual Social VIP DayA compatibility-based curated experience designed around you, with strategic positioning guidance before and after.
9 months

of guided transformation

Private + group

coaching and accountability

Learning + living

real-world social implementation

One goal

the relationship life you choose

Your goal may be deeper connection, personal development, emotional intelligence, consistent dating experiences, commitment, engagement, or marriage. The experience is personalized around the outcome you are ready to pursue.

Real women. Real movement.

The result is not always a ring.
It is always a woman who can move differently.

Some Allure Ladies found lasting love. Others found the courage to leave what was not love, the discernment to recognize what did not fit, or the confidence to become visible again. Each result began with preparation.

Collage of Prepare to Be Pursued clients celebrating engagements, marriages, and happy relationships
Engagements. Marriages. Healthy relationships. And women who first decided their romantic future deserved intentional preparation.
From uncertaintyto a proposal in six months

Khiema entered weighed down by past disappointments and wavering confidence. She left with a new love story—and a proposal.

Khiema M. • Program participant
From doubtto engagement

Lakisha worked through long-standing trust barriers, unresolved wounds, and the beliefs that had blocked her romantic progress.

Lakisha J. • Program participant
From waitingto choosing herself

After more than two years in an uncommitted situationship, Shannon gained the confidence to ask for what she deserved—and walk away.

Shannon S. • Program participant

These stories reflect individual experiences, not guaranteed outcomes. Your results depend on your goals, participation, circumstances, and choices.

One journey. Individually defined outcomes.

Elite Allure does not assign every woman the same destination. Your results are shaped by your starting point, goals, readiness, participation, opportunities, choices, and the personal variables the journey helps bring to the surface. Those variables are examined honestly so your strategy—and the progress you pursue—can be distinctly yours.

Since 2010working in the relationship and love industry
10+ marriagesfacilitated through P2BP since 2018
PCC + CPCprofessional relationship coaching credentials

Inside their transformations

They did not all begin in the same place—or need the same result.

Individualized support

“I felt seen as an individual, with my own unique journey.”

Khiema says the difference was not simply the vision or the result—it was Nikki's guidance and a supportive community that treated her story as her own.

— Khiema

Discernment

She stopped trying to “fix” or “save” men.

Adrienne entered wanting to understand why she kept attracting unsuitable partners. She gained clarity, learned to recognize and act on red flags, and found greater balance in relationships.

— Adrienne, federal program analyst

Worth after divorce

She rebuilt confidence—and became open to love again.

Cecilia began with low self-esteem and feeling unworthy of love after divorce. Through the lessons and support, she rejected negative self-talk, regained confidence, and recognized her worth.

— Cecilia

Identity beyond responsibility

She rediscovered the woman beneath the roles.

As a widowed mother focused almost entirely on her children and work, Cioffi had not made dating a priority. She gained clarity about who she was and what she truly wanted in a relationship.

— Cioffi

Self-worth

“I'm starting to truly believe I deserve love.”

Kimberly stopped burying her feelings and telling herself she was “okay.” She began trusting the process, confronting her barriers, and taking ownership of her transformation.

— Kimberly

Real-world confidence

She moved through anxiety and connected authentically.

During her Dallas VIP Day, Shauniesa practiced engaging meaningfully, learned where and how to meet people in her own city, and experienced Nikki's guidance in real time.

— Shauniesa

“

I now have clearly defined standards and boundaries. It is easier for me to decide what man I should give a chance at friendship—and eventually love.

— One-on-one coaching client

Flyer for the Prepare to Be Pursued Greece Getaway, March 22 through 26, 2027

The Allure life expands

Greece Getaway 2027

March 22–26, 2027 • Athens & the Aegean

Join fellow Allure Ladies for five days and four nights of Mediterranean beauty, cultural discovery, sisterhood, and the kind of vibrant experiences that remind you how expansive your life can be.

The experience includes

  • A five-day, four-night iconic Aegean cruise
  • Refurbished double-occupancy cabin accommodations
  • Authentic Mediterranean group dinners
  • Five destinations across Greece and the Aegean
  • Connection and memories with the Allure community
Athens→Mykonos→Patmos→Rhodes→Santorini

Flights, hotel stays, optional excursions, single-cabin upgrades, and the Santorini flying-dress photo shoot are not included.

Ask About Greece 2027

Meet your coach

Nikki Anarado, PCC
Certified Matchmaker

The Original Dating Preparation Coach—and a trusted guide for women who are ready for more than advice. They are ready for transformation.

For more than a decade, Nikki has helped driven, accomplished women stop treating love as an afterthought and prepare for healthy, lasting connection. Her approach pairs compassionate coaching with the structure of a former Project Management Professional: no gimmicks, no one-size-fits-all rules, and no shallow formula for “getting a man.”

  • Professional Certified Coach, International Coaching Federation
  • Certified Professional Coach, Relationship Coaching Institute
  • Certified Matchmaker, IAP Career College
  • Creator and host of The Male Room Show
  • Featured on The Dr. Oz Show

A considered decision

This experience may be right for you if…

  • You are proud of the life you have built, yet know partnership deserves more than whatever energy is left.
  • You want personalized support—not recycled internet rules, pressure, or performance.
  • You are ready to look honestly at the beliefs and patterns shaping your relationship outcomes.
  • You want to meet and evaluate quality men with greater confidence, calm, and discernment.
  • You are willing to practice new ways of connecting in your real life—not simply collect more information.

Private enrollment

Nine months from now, your relationship life can look entirely different.

This is a substantial, high-touch commitment—for women who are ready to be supported personally, challenged thoughtfully, and surrounded by an experience that keeps their romantic goals from returning to the bottom of the list.

By application

Begin with a private exploration conversation.

This is more than an introductory call. Together, we will uncover the gap between the relationship life you desire and the patterns, priorities, fears, or unseen variables that may be keeping it out of reach. You will clarify the result you actually want, identify what deserves your attention now, and leave with a more honest view of your next move—even if you decide not to continue into Elite Allure.

Expect a conversation designed to change how you understand your current romantic reality—not a pressured sales pitch.

Explore Your Allure

Before you apply

A few honest answers.

Is this matchmaking?

Although Coach Nikki is a Certified Matchmaker, Elite Allure is designed to prepare women to become their own best matchmaker. Through proven connection skill-set development, you learn how to create opportunities, recognize compatibility, evaluate potential, and participate in healthier relationships with confidence. For women who want direct introductions, our highest-tier Allure LUX experience includes matchmaking services.

Do I need to be actively dating?

No. In fact, the work is especially valuable when you want to prepare before the next meaningful opportunity appears.

Why is the experience nine months?

Because insight is only the beginning. The extended format gives you time to understand your patterns, create a personalized strategy, develop social skills, practice in real life, receive coaching, and adjust with support as new experiences unfold.

Is this therapy?

No. Elite Allure does not diagnose or treat mental health conditions, and it does not replace clinical care. Many of our clients are therapists and social workers themselves; they value the journey precisely because it maintains a clear boundary between clinical support and the real-life implementation of targeted social, dating, and connection outcomes. When therapy is also appropriate, the two forms of support can complement one another while serving distinct purposes.

What happens after I apply?

You will schedule a complimentary exploration session with an Allure Associate to discuss your goals, readiness, and the best next step.

A clear next step

Nine months of coaching, strategy, community, retreats, and real-world implementation—held inside one complete experience.

Your Elite Investment

$5,000

Includes the complete Elite Journey outlined above.

Personalized upgrades and enhanced experiences found in our LUX service suite are made available for women who desire premium care, based on your goals and eligibility.

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